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Monday, August 29, 2005

i've gotten into people watching.
analysing them, sizing them up
believe me,i'm not an analytical person
far from it in fact.
but yeaa,
it's getting fun(:

but hey,
they're my opinions and what i think.
as far as you know,
these people might not even exist.hah
so there.

the one who first catches your eye

you'd first see him in a crowd
cute
something different about him
two sides of him,
you'd swear he was two totally different people.

with his friends
you'd see his smile,the brightest out of the group.
the most real.

alone,
you'd see him sullen, subdued
sometimes his eyes never leaving the floor
other times his chin lifted,facing the world as it is
only the slightest hint of a smile on his lips
even as a stranger,if you manage eye-contact
you'd swear he looks at you with recognition in his eyes.

he's the kind of person you can trust.
someone you know you can count and depend on.
someone who'll hold you tight when you feel cold and alone.
someone you can easily imagine spending the rest of your life with.

the kind of daddy who'll love and hug and cuddle your kids,
come up from behind and kiss you while you're doing the dishes.
the kind of guy you can curl up on a rug with,
in front of a warm fire while your garden's nothing more than a white blanket.

what more could a girl possibly ask for?

- xoxo
charis loves you
5:28 PM

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only yours baby

i'm charis vera Ng,
i'm NOT a Singaporean, i was born in UK
but i spent most of my four years in scotland
i love alastair(:
i'm doing my best to live for God though i often fail miserably

ok,try this:
you're this girl who's flown over to this country when you're no more than four years of age
you resent your dad for it,
and it doesn't help when things between your parents don't work out either.

so you miss your home terribly,
you miss going strawberry-picking,
you miss eating boiled eggs out of egg-cups
and you miss warm and cuddly Uncle John and Aunty Esther.

instead,
you find yourself forced to change
and adapt in a horribly hot place
where in primary school,
you meet cold,heartless little kids who ignore you and don't let you play "family"
just cos your accent is different.
early on,
you get weird looks and you find yourself going for recess breaks alone.
your classmates complain to the class teacher when you call them stupid
because they don't understand what to you is simple english.
but they leave you alone when you call them an imbecile
because they don't know what it means.
your primary 1 & 2 class teacher takes joy in complaining to your mummy
because she detests you.
she detests you for constantly correcting her english grammer and pronunciation in front of the class
you soon realize that you can actually gain and keep friends upon them finding out your mother's an actress
but by that time you've more or less forced yourself to lose your accent which makes communication a lot easier anyway.

that was the little girl charis,
now,
on top of that,
i can be a total biotch sometimes, towards people.
and don't tell me you aren't sometimes please.
but i try my very best not to bitch about people.
im a dangerous shopper(=
i never know what i want or need til i see it.

i don't like television.
now that's a first innit?HAH.
bet you never knew someone who didn't like tv
well i don't
and i'm not trying to be different and difficult
it's noisy and boring
i like music:)
i find eating a chore but i love snacking
figure that out
i find certain kinds of pain addictive,
no, i promise i'm still sane.

which is actually pretty remarkable for someone living here,
in this time and place
where you normally get loads of homework,
tests with questions that look like they're in foreign language,
and where everything's a competition to be the best,
the prettiest,
the most popular,
the most hated,
the thinnest,
the fattest, the coolest
the list goes on.
one shouldn't try to be something you're not,
but everyone knows that's easier said than done.
like duurh.